Why Ask for My Number When I Give It to You?

It's the age-old question - 'Do you have my number?' followed by the clumsy social dance that usually ensues. This article seeks to shed light on common responses and the underlying reasons for them. Let's dive into why we might be asked for our numbers and the various ways people answer (or don't).

Do You Have a Number?

The answer to ‘Do you have a number?’ can be quite revealing. Here are some common scenarios and responses:

1. Social Inquisition and Cultural Sensitivity

Some people are overly curious about our contact details, much like asking a woman her age or a man his religious affiliation. It's a line that's crossed when it comes to privacy and comfort levels:

Why Dude…you know that is as socially unacceptable as asking a woman her age or man if he's a Methodist. Right? So, why not.

The answer might be a casual joke or a practical number like:

1 800 772 6563. I won't answer though unless I know you. So... eh. It'll at least give me something to do with deleting voice-mails or something.

2. Old School Phones and Extensions

Remember those days of landlines with multiple extensions and answering machines? Here's a nostalgic look at a digital past:

Let me count – 1995, I owned my very first Nokia mobile. Four upgrades before 2003, also Nokia. A HTC, an Original Motorola, a Samsung, an Alcatel with useless GPS, a Lenovo Motorola, a licensed Nokia branded phone, an Oppo, and along the line, have also had a landline with four extensions. And a DECT answering machine with two handsets. So, the phone in my hand is my 18th. My most recent purchase was a phablet and I have an older Bluetooth handset to go with it. I will likely use a wired headset more frequently. I have inherited other phones but, other than testing, I have not used them.

3. Privacy at All Costs

Some, like the happily married woman in the story, refuse to share contact details with strangers:

I don't give my phone number to strangers. Do not ask me again. I am a very happily married woman.

4. Digital Security and Caution

Sharing personal information comes with the risk of unwanted attention. This is where the phone number is only shared with those who matter:

The digits that you enter telephonically –

1IOI867-5309

Just dial up 867-5309.

As a security measure, this response is a clever way to offer a number for genuine use without exposing the risqué and often unwanted attention:

I've never given my number out to anyone online before. But you know what, I'll give it a shot. Here it is:

1–800-NOT-TODAY

5. Addressing the Questioner

The origin of the question and its implications can often be addressed directly:

Why did you ask and answer your own question and post your own number for any nut-job stalker and weirdo to start calling you every 5 minutes… starting at 2 AM!?

This rhetorical question highlights the irony and impracticality of the situation, especially given the time of day. It's a fitting response to someone who might misuse personal information.

Conclusion

Giving or not giving a phone number can be a delicate matter, especially in the digital age where such details can quickly turn into unwanted attention. The key is understanding the context and purpose behind the request. Whether it's a casual social interaction or a serious inquiry, always consider what you are comfortable with sharing.

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