The Power of Forgiveness and Allah's Justice: A Path to Divine Healing and Peace

When someone hurts us, the natural response is often to feel wounded and seek justice. However, in the broader context of Islam, our responses are guided by the understanding that forgiveness and leaving the consequences to Allah are the paths to peace and divine care.

Understanding Limited and Unlimited Knowledge

Before delving into the discussion, it is crucial to understand the concept of knowledge in the Deen. The verse 'Allah knows this even before He created any single creation that this day at this hour you were gonna be hurt by that person because of that and this' elucidates the idea of Unlimited Knowledge. This refers to the omni-competent and all-knowing nature of Allah. Every event, incident, and action is known to Allah from the very moment it is conceived.

Forgiveness in the Absence of Praying Dua

When someone hurts us, we may experience deep pain and sorrow. In such situations, we often feel the need to verbalize our pain through prayer (dua). However, if we suffer in silence, holding back from expressing these emotions, Allah still acknowledges and takes care of our pain. This is rooted in the belief that Allah's justice and compassion extend to every form of suffering, even when we choose not to verbalize our pain. In these cases, the act of suffering itself is recognized as a form of dua by Allah.

Consequences of Holding Grudges and Forgiveness in the Afterlife

It is worth noting that if someone intentionally wrongs or hurts us, we should seek their forgiveness in this life. Doing so is not just a noble act but also a means to prevent potential discomfort in the afterlife. In the hadith, it is mentioned that a person who insults or hurts another Muslim and does not ask for forgiveness in this life will be held accountable in the afterlife. This is due to the belief in the accountability of each individual for their actions, both good and bad.

Divine Forgiveness and Justice: A Systematic Approach

There are instances where Allah may offer forgiveness directly, sometimes through unexpected means. According to the hadith, a good Muslim should trust that Allah will offer the wronged party sufficient incentives to forgive them, such as granting them a place in Jannah. This divine intervention is a manifestation of Allah's infinite mercy and justice.

From a personal perspective, many individuals who have suffered deeply have turned to prayer and forgiveness. For example, someone who was deeply hurt may pray: 'O Allah, I forgive her as she is Your creation. By Your honor, I respect Your creation, and I forgive her. Leave it to You.'

Often, after such prayers, unexpected justice is achieved without direct involvement from the wrongdoer. This outcome is not a form of vengeance but a manifestation of Allah's perfect justice, which can only be exercised by Him alone. Human attempts to punish others independently can never be as just or effective as those that come from the divine.

The Role of Patience and Trust

While the act of forgiveness may not immediately change the situation or provide immediate satisfaction, patience and trust in Allah's plan are essential. The hurt and pain that we feel can be a means to draw closer to Allah and gain His mercy. Trusting that Allah is the ultimate Judge means that our concerns and pain are no less recognized by Him.

The battle against the idea that we can justly or effectively punish someone who has wronged us lies in recognizing that only Allah can bring about true justice. Sharia rules, though crucial, cannot address the deeper issues of the heart. Following the divine path requires patience and trust, even in the face of overwhelming injustice.

It is important to remember that Allah's love for us is more profound than any human's love. He loves His servants more than any mother can love her child, a thought that can provide solace in times of deep hurt and pain. Trusting in this truth and allowing Allah to take care of the situation brings comfort and peace, even in the face of injustice.

Conclusion: In the face of hurt and pain, forgiveness and leaving it to Allah are the pathways to divine healing and peace. Trust in Allah's unlimited knowledge and infinite mercy provides the strength to endure these adversities with resilience and hope.