My Christmas Alone as a Single Person: No Plans to Meet Someone Either

When I think about Christmas, what initially comes to mind is often the prospect of meeting someone to spend the holiday with. But not this year. It’s just another day off work, despite the grueling 10-hour shift.

No Plans to Meet Someone

I’ll be cooking a special meal as soon as I decide on what to prepare. And as for ‘meeting someone…’— no, no, no! I prefer to be alone.。

Considering My Situation

Not sure if I should classify myself as 'widowed.' At least, I can claim not to be in a relationship. But I’m not seeking a partner for Christmas and beyond. There are some well-thought-out reasons for this:

Religious and Family Commitments

Firstly, I am rather selective when it comes to relationships. If I start now, I might be ready to invite her over for New Year's NEXT YEAR, not Christmas. Secondly, my daughters will be visiting for Christmas, and they have absolutely no desire for a 'wicked stepmom' on their wish list.

So, bringing in a stranger into the family is a definite ‘no’ this year. Tonight will be a Mexican Christmas, with only Spanish spoken, tamales, and a feast. Perhaps our choir will offer a short performance at the mass, which is booked for sure. This alone will exclude many 'suitors' from my shortlist, maybe even more.

Low Prospects for a Relationship

The chances of me getting into another relationship are slim to none. There are too many restrictions and conditions, and I lack dating skills. My late wife would likely approve, even if Jesus suggests maintaining a relationship in Heaven. But I will certainly miss her during the season, as I did last year and will do the years to come.

But what can I say? There won’t be any Christmas squabbles either. We never had those in our 31 years of marriage.

Being Content with Solitude

Well, who knew that being alone and avoiding finding someone for Christmas were the most appealing things for me? No, I have less than zero desire to meet someone on Christmas, or any other day, for that matter. As for what I am doing for Christmas—absolutely nothing—from my memories of growing up with my family, to being a teenager independent, to the various relationships I’ve had over the decades (single, or with one long-term partner at a time)—Christmas has never crossed my mind in this way.