Firefighters: A Rare Occupation for Thanks but Common for Service

Firefighting is a challenging and often unrecognized profession. Despite the countless times firefighters are called to perform noble acts, their gratitude is far and few between. Volunteers and career firefighters are frequently thanked, but this act of appreciation is a rare occurrence. Here, we explore the dynamics and realities of firefighters and their relationship with the communities they serve.

Firefighters and Gratitude

The idea of gratitude towards firefighters is quite the contrast to the reality. In my personal experience, gratitude for firefighters is uncommon. However, there are notable exceptions and unique instances where these heroic men and women are thanked. For example, in my community, different fire crews were 'adopted' by various families. These families made us honorary groomsmen, honorary Godfathers, pall bearers, and special guests at graduations. Additionally, we received a variety of delicious treats, like cookies, cakes, pies, tamales, and baklava at the stations.

Gratitude in the Post-Rescue Era

While gratitude is rare, the post-rescue life can be overwhelming. Often, those rescued from fires or emergencies face numerous medical issues that make it hard for them to avoid being profoundly affected. In the 1990s, during FDNY Medal Day, a woman rescued by Gerry Murtha appeared on stage to thank him. This event was noteworthy, but thankfulness for firefighters tends to be rare.

The Reality of Firefighting

Many firefighters, including some of my family members, are volunteer firefighters who get thanked regularly. However, it's important to remember that those in need of thanks are often under immense stress. Personally, I hope that firefighters don't need to be thanked. Ideally, their job should be so routine that they get bored. This implies a lesser necessity for emergencies, where the alternative is terrifying.

The Challenges of the Profession

Despite the occasional thankfulness, firefighters face more adversities than praise. They have been sued more frequently than they have been thanked. This situation speaks volumes about the pressure and stress inherent in the profession. In a rehab group with other first responders, many shared harrowing stories and heartfelt hugs, but the ones they couldn't rescue weighed heavily on their minds.

Personal Anecdotes and Lessons

While gratitude is frequently absent, there are moments that shine through. As a junior firefighter, we get thanked all the time. For instance, during a recent forest fire, after we had put out the fire, a 15-year-old girl thanked us. Such moments are rare but uplifting. These experiences not only highlight the gratitude that is there but also the importance of recognizing and celebrating the service that firefighters provide.

In conclusion, while firefighters face significant challenges and are not always thanked, their dedication and service to the communities they serve are invaluable. We must strive to honor and appreciate these heroes in their time of need and beyond.