Embracing the Label: How I Feel When People Call Me an SJW

When someone calls me an SJW, I feel a mix of pride and amusement. This label is often associated with social justice activism, and for me, it's a badge of honor. In my worldview, it means I've successfully stood up for what I believe in and refused to back down in the face of criticism.

A Wordplay on Perception

My response to being labeled as an SJW is generally lighthearted rather than defensive. Just as a broken ice precedent can be set, my attitude often fosters a more relaxed and open discussion. For example, during a visit to a Hermes shop, people's initial reactions were conservative but my offbeat comment shifted the atmosphere. My humor serves to break the ice and defuse any tension.

Ignoring Misunderstandings

When someone doesn't understand what "SJW" means, my first instinct is to laugh and move on. There's no need to overreact or engage in a long explanation. Conversely, if the criticism is rooted in something worth addressing, I try to remain open-minded but firm in my resolve. It's important to recognize that sometimes people resort to negative labels when they lack the words to express their genuine concerns effectively.

Compliment or Criticism?

For me, being called an SJW is a form of praise. It signifies that my efforts in advocating for social justice are recognized and that my actions have made a difference. Moreover, it's not uncommon for those who oppose social justice to label advocates as "SJWs" to criticize. This terminology is often used pejoratively, but I choose to see it as a sign that my message is having an impact.

A Cultural Evolution

Interestingly, the term "SJW" has roots in another generation. In the dating apps of the 20th century, "SJW" stood for "single Jewish woman." The term has evolved significantly, carrying a very different connotation today. To me, it's a testament to the progress we've made in embracing different identities and values. However, it's also a reminder that the label itself can evolve and change over time.

Maintaining a Nuanced Approach

While I see value in the label, I'm also cautious about broadcasting my feminist ideals across all platforms. Online, I've been vocal about my beliefs, particularly in forums where such discussions are common. However, in my personal and professional life, I tend to keep a lower profile, aware that many people react negatively to feminism. The art of debate lies in sharing your ideas without explicitly labeling them as fascist or patriarchal, which can be a powerful way to start a constructive conversation.

Conclusion

My response to being called an SJW is one of resilience and humor. It's a reminder that standing up for social justice often means facing criticism, but also that those criticisms can be turned into opportunities for dialogue. Embracing the label is about more than just pride; it's about advocating for a better, more inclusive world.