Do Politically Correct People Really Worry About Their Own Correctness?

There's a common perception that those who practice politeness, respect, and caution in their language and actions are preoccupied with their own correctness. However, does this characterization hold water? In reality, the vast majority of individuals who live by these principles are simply trying to be decent human beings. This article delves into the reality behind the notion that politically correct people spend a lot of time analysing their own behavior, and explains why this viewpoint is often misguided.

The Golden Rule and Its Relevance

Back in school days, we were all taught the Golden Rule: 'Treat others the way you’d like to be treated.' This principle, deeply rooted in ethical teachings across many cultures, serves as a guiding principle for many. Despite its simplicity and widespread recognition, it remains a powerful guide for respectful and considerate behavior.

For most people who genuinely strive to be kind and respectful, the idea of obsession with their own politeness is nonsensical. If you are a genuine person of good character, why would you need to constantly monitor and evaluate your behavior? You just go out and be yourself, or as decent as you can. Just as you wouldn't spend all day navel-gazing about how kind you are, you wouldn't spend excessive time questioning your efforts to avoid foot-in-mouth moments.

Political Correctness and Respectful Communication

When most people are referred to as 'politically correct,' it often simply means they are being polite and respectful. Political correctness isn't about being overly careful with every word; it's about avoiding hurtful, disrespectful language. If someone is rude, using accusatory terms like 'political correctness' doesn’t make their behavior any more acceptable. It only adds to the problem by deflecting attention from the underlying issue of rudeness.

Chances are, when someone uses the term 'political correctness,' they themselves are being inconsiderate. It's a poor excuse to cover up one's own lack of sensitivity or respect. It’s important to recognize that pointing fingers at others for using terms like 'political correctness' is often a way to justify one's own misguided or disrespectful actions.

The Evolution of Social Norms

Society as a whole is constantly working towards greater inclusivity and respect. Every year, we make progress that makes the less considerate seem increasingly outdated. It's not that these less considerate individuals can't improve; it's that societies often progress in ways that redefine what is acceptable and expected.

The idea that some high-profile individuals are making a career out of being rude serves only to highlight the shifting social landscape. If they can still gain attention and success by practicing rudeness, it reflects a continued normalization of such behavior in certain social circles. However, the rest of us should continue to advocate for a more considerate and respectful cultural norm.

Those who are genuinely concerned with practicing politeness and respect are not obsessed with their own correctness. Rather, they are simply striving to contribute to a better society where everyone feels valued and respected. Political correctness, in the truest sense, is an important aspect of this strive for inclusivity and mutual respect.

The next time someone accuses you of being 'politically correct,' consider whether the accusation might reveal more about the person making it than it does about your behavior. Perhaps they are the ones who need to evaluate their own communication style, rather than pointing the finger at you.