Connecting with Inmates: Stories and Surprises from the Inside

Connecting with inmates can be a touching and transformative experience for both the correspondent and the inmate. In this article, I share my ongoing correspondences with various inmates, focusing on their stories, experiences, and the impact of these conversations on their lives.

Keeping in Touch with a Spiritual Mentor

My story begins with a spiritual mentor I met in jail on November 11, 2007. This man not only introduced me to Christ but also became a constant presence in my life through our correspondence. While I was hoping he would be out of prison a few years ago, he was instead transferred to the Florida Civil Commitment Center in Arcadia, FL. Despite this setback, I managed to write a letter to him a few months ago, and he responded almost immediately. We arranged to speak on the phone early on a Saturday morning, finding it easier to reach him then due to his availability. He even works as a weight trainer, often combining his studies with his workouts.

We often share our Bible studies during his workouts, and each conversation with him recharges me spiritually. It's like I'm getting a second wind from our exchanges. Our interactions are more than just communication; they are moments of healing and growth.

Another Acquaintance from Prison

Another ex-inmate, whom I knew while in prison, has also made a significant difference in my life. He recently completed his probation and is on Facebook, planning his marriage. This positive turn of events brings great joy and hope for his future. We used to share a lower bunk just across from each other, spending long hours sharing coffee, laughter, and prayers. He was particularly helpful when I wrote articles for a prison ministry newsletter based in Auburn, IN. His accessibility as a sounding board was invaluable, and our time together was a blend of joy and spiritual guidance.

Staying Connected with Multiple Inmates

Currently, I correspond with around six inmates. The majority are women I was locked up with, and a few are men from my childhood. Most of the women were drug addicts before incarceration, and they are there for either sales or robbery offenses. The men, on the other hand, have committed more violent crimes. Among these inmates, there are several notable stories:

The Goddaughter's Father: This inmate's father shot his wife's stepfather, resulting in a 20-year sentence for attempted murder. He is nearing the end of his sentence and brings a sense of hope to our exchanges, serving as a reminder of the future possibilities. My Husband: My husband is serving 15 years for a gun-related charge. Our correspondence during his imprisonment has been a vital support system for both of us.

These interactions not only provide companionship and encouragement but also reflect the broader impact of prison ministry and the importance of maintaining connections with inmates.

Impact of Inmate Correspondence

Inmate correspondence is more than a pastime; it is a significant aspect of rehabilitation and personal growth. Reaching out to inmates allows for mutual support, shared experiences, and the potential for spiritual transformation. Whether it's a spiritual mentor, an ex-acquaintance, or a fellow inmate, these connections can be transformative for both parties involved.

By staying connected with inmates, we not only provide a valuable service but also foster a sense of community and shared humanity. These interactions remind us of the common human experiences of joy, sorrow, and the ongoing journey towards personal betterment.