Are INFPs on Tinder Successful? The Search for Genuine Connections

While I don't live in India, I can answer the second half of your question: Does Tinder work for INFPs?

Does Tinder Work for INFPs?

I’ve never tried Tinder, and it never interested me. The reason? It's all about staring at pictures of people, deciding whether or not to message them based on their appearance. While this might be easier for an introvert than socializing or bar-hopping, my primary focus is on knowing a person’s personality. Appearance and gender are not important to me. What matters most is the heart and soul. Until there's an app that captures soul-fies, I continue to prefer genuine connections over superficial ones.

Are There INFPs on Tinder?

Yes, there definitely are INFPs on Tinder. I’ve spotted about 2–3 INFPs, a few INFPs, and a few INFJs and INTJs too. So, it is not rare to find INFPs on the app. However, this alone does not guarantee success. The key is how you use the app.

Using Tinder for Genuine Connections

Is Tinder effective for finding genuine connections as an INFP? The answer largely depends on your goals. If you're looking for meaningless hookups, your success rate might be higher. But that's not what INFPs generally desire. INFPs usually seek more concrete and meaningful connections.

Tinder is flooded with ESxx types (Extroverts, Sensing, Thinking, Judging and Extroverts, Sensing, Feeling, Judging). Thus, you may have to deal with a lot of small talk and enthusiastic invitations to meet. As a fellow introvert, I can understand how daunting this can be. Meeting a person you barely know is a hell to the no! Not to mention, the endless meaningless surface talk can quickly become boring, especially for any N-type individuals (INFPs, INTPs, etc.).

Making Your Profile Stand Out

Despite the challenges, Tinder can still be a good place to meet new people, especially if you don’t go out much. It may be difficult to find like-minded people, but it’s not impossible. Here are some tips:

Write a proper bio: Explain exactly what you are seeking. For example, make it clear that you are looking for intellectually stimulating people who tend to overshare. Mention your personality type: Not everyone is aware of the MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator), but sharing your type can help some people understand you better. If you've been talking to someone for a while, don't hesitate to suggest they take the test. A simple statement like, "So, uh, have you heard of this thing called MBTI?" can work just fine. It doesn’t have to be awkward if said right. Persistently search and communicate: Keep a watchful eye out for potential matches who share your interests. Engage in meaningful conversations and break the ice by suggesting activities that align with your values and interests.

By staying authentic and finding common ground, you can increase your chances of forming genuine connections with like-minded people.

While INFPs might face some challenges on Tinder, it is not insurmountable. By being strategic and persistent, you can find meaningful connections in the digital world.

Carry on, and continue your journey of discovery!